Shane Beamer’s path to South Carolina started with a flat-out bad night in Starkville, and his wife Emily is glad it happened.
Back in 2004, Beamer was Mississippi State’s cornerbacks coach and recruiting coordinator, and a loss to Alabama turned into the kind of detour that changes everything. On the drive back to Starkville, he ran out of gas for the only time in his life.
“I've run out of gas one time in my entire life and it was that night," Shane Beamer told The Greenville News. "The rest is history."
Brad Pendergrass, then a staff member at Mississippi State, came to help - but only after Beamer agreed to stop with him first and celebrate Emily’s birthday at Lucky’s. Beamer had seen Emily before, a few months earlier in the Mississippi State press box, when she was in her first year in sports information and the two exchanged only a brief look as she got off an elevator and he got on. That night at Lucky’s, though, they finally talked.
What followed was quick by any standard. They married two years later.
“I remember just talking with her that night, how natural it felt, and we just kind of clicked,” Shane Beamer said. “It wasn't uncomfortable, it wasn't awkward. It was just like we had known each other for a long time, and it was just very much at ease.”
Emily Beamer, a Starkville native and Mississippi State graduate, still has deep family ties to the place where it all started. Her father was a Mississippi Highway Patrolman who traveled with the Bulldogs for many years, and Shane knew him before he ever met Emily.
That connection makes this weekend’s meeting between No. 2 South Carolina and Mississippi State feel personal, even if the loyalties are clear now.
South Carolina (2-0) hosts Mississippi State (2-0) for its SEC opener on Sept. 19 at 4:15 p.m. ET on SEC Network, and the Beamer household will be firmly on one side.
In 2007, when Shane Beamer took a job at South Carolina under Steve Spurrier, Mississippi State was on the schedule that season, which Emily remembers as an odd moment with her father on one sideline and her husband on the other.
“But ever since then our loyalty is always to whoever Shane is working for,” she said.
That’s been especially true in recent years. When South Carolina played Mississippi State in 2023, Emily’s family had no problem celebrating a 37-30 Gamecocks win.
This weekend, her sister, her sister’s husband and two sons, plus her parents, will be in town, and the family split that once existed won’t be much of one at all. Even Beamer’s 6-year-old nephew got a head start, showing up to church on Sept. 6 wearing a Gamecocks polo.
“I think at first my parents couldn't believe how quickly I could turn (into a South Carolina fan)," Emily Beamer said. "I, obviously don't root against Mississippi State, but I only can pull for one team now and it's my Gamecocks."
For Shane Beamer, Mississippi State is more than just another stop on a coaching résumé. It was the place he landed when he was jobless and expecting something else.
After a graduate assistant stint at Tennessee in 2004, where he first met Pendergrass, Beamer figured Duke was next. He knew the ACC from his father Frank Beamer’s long run at Virginia Tech, where Shane also played, and he knew then-Duke coach Ted Roof from Georgia Tech. The fit seemed obvious.
Instead, Mississippi State called, and Beamer took the job. Two days later, Duke reached out.
“God led me to Starkville and I think about it all the time,” Beamer said. “Just how thankful I am that it worked out because I accepted that job ... then Ted Roof called me and offered me a job at Duke but I'm like 'Nope, I gave Sylvester Croom my word, I'm at Mississippi State now.'”
“Two years later I'm married, and here we are, 20 years later,” Beamer said.
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