Seven months after the handshake flashpoint that hijacked the conversation around South Carolina’s Final Four win over UConn, Dawn Staley is finally laying out her side in full.
On the “Grey Matter” podcast, published Oct. 21, Staley said Geno Auriemma’s complaint after the Gamecocks’ 62-48 victory in Phoenix on April 3 was never just about a handshake. It was, in her telling, something deeper that spilled over in the moment after South Carolina advanced to the national championship game against UCLA.
“I think Geno really thinks it’s about the handshake, and it has very little to do with the handshake,” Staley said during the podcast appearance.
The exchange that drew so much attention came in the postgame handshake line after South Carolina beat UConn in the 2026 Women’s Final Four. Auriemma confronted Staley and was upset that she had not shaken his hand before the game, too.
Staley’s version has been consistent: USC and UConn’s staffs did exchange handshakes before tipoff, and she says Auriemma was pointing to a separate pregame moment roughly two minutes before the game that she says she did not know about and did not mean to miss.
That detail mattered in her telling, because the NCAA had already gone over pregame procedures with teams’ operations staffs before the event. Staley said she understood that kind of sequencing in broad terms, but not that there would be a second coach-to-coach handshake right before the game.
“Sometimes, they’ll bring up the fact that before the game, after starting lineups, the coaches will come to halfcourt and they’ll shake hands,” she said. “At this Final Four ... no one in my camp said, ‘We’re going to do this right before tipoff.’”
Staley said she moved straight to her team huddle after the lineup introductions in Phoenix. Then came Auriemma’s accusation, which she said landed hard in the moment.
“my blood’s boiling at this point because he just called me a liar.”
She added that she was ready to finally speak openly because she had held back since the incident.
“I think Geno really thinks it’s about the handshake, and it has very little to do with the handshake,” Staley said. “I respect him. I respect what he’s done for the game, and I think he’s a genius of a coach.”
Then she widened the lens beyond that one night.
“Understand this: When we’ve played UConn, whether I was at Temple or here at South Carolina, and they were the overarching favorites, and they played that way, and they beat us 20, 30, 40 points, I made a point to always, after the game, shake his hand, look him in his eye, congratulate him and move on.”
Staley said she had done that on purpose, even when the emotions were still raw, because she believed it was part of how leaders should carry themselves.
“I did it. I purposely made myself do that, even though I probably was thinking and feeling some other way.
Because I hate losing. I don’t like losing, right?
But I made a point to do that because I knew the more we played them, the more we’ll get acclimated to playing them. I thought that we would beat them at some point, and that’s what started to happen.
And I think probably that moment, you know ...”
”It all came out?” Kelly, the host, offered.
“Yeah, it all came out,” Staley said.
She also acknowledged the competitive edge that can flare in those moments.
“I am a sore loser like that as well,” Staley continued. “I am, but I try to keep it under control because we are leaders of young people, and we have to set the tone and example of how we need to lead, especially in moments like that.”
Auriemma later apologized twice, though his first statement did not mention Staley by name. His actions after the game had drawn heavy criticism.
Staley had previously said at the Final Four, “At some point, everything is going to be addressed.”
The rivalry itself has swung sharply in recent years. Staley is 6-10 (.375) against UConn during her time at South Carolina. The Gamecocks dropped their first seven games against the Huskies from 2008-18, then won six of the next seven and five straight from 2021-24, including the 2022 national championship game.
Staley remains the only coach to beat Auriemma in a national title game. UConn then routed USC in the 2025 championship game in Tampa before South Carolina knocked off the No. 1 overall seed Huskies in the 2026 Final Four.
South Carolina and UConn begin this season ranked No. 1 and No. 2 in the preseason AP Top 25, and they are scheduled to meet Nov. 24 in Uncasville, Connecticut, at 8 p.m. on FS1.
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