Kayla Harper has spent nearly all of Bryce Harper’s pro career close enough to hear the noise. The boos, the hot takes, the headlines - she’s seen it all. But when the criticism shifts from his game to his character, that’s where it lands differently.
During the couple’s first interview together, Kayla opened up about the one kind of attack that still gets to her. The emotion came fast, and so did the tears.
“It’s not even when people say he sucks, because obviously he doesn’t suck. I think it’s more when they attack his character and I’m like, ‘That is not him at all,’” Kayla said during the Sept. 1 episode of Kristin Cavallari's "Let's Be Honest" podcast.
For Kayla, that’s the real pain: hearing people judge the husband, father and friend she has known since they were teenagers. Bryce and Kayla met in Nevada as teens and have now been together for 16 years. They share four children, Krew, Brooklyn, Kamryn and Hayes, and she’s watched his life unfold in public for almost their entire relationship.
The interview was their first together, and Kayla made clear at the start that she usually keeps her distance from that part of Bryce’s world.
“Why do I get emotional?” Kayla said as she wiped away tears. “But yeah, I think that’s hard, when you hear so many people’s opinions about your husband and that’s not the person that he is, or the dad that he is, or the friend that he is, or even the baseball player that he is.”
A moment later, she laughed at herself through the tears. “Oh my gosh, I can’t believe I’m crying.
This is so embarrassing. This is why I don’t do this stuff.”
Kayla said she hasn’t always stayed quiet. She called herself “sassy” and admitted there were times when she fired back at people when she was younger. Now, she understands that jumping in usually doesn’t change much.
“I feel like he’s always had a really tough go at media ever since he was younger,” she said. “Seeing somebody that you care the most about getting torn apart by everybody who doesn’t know him. That’s hard to sit back and not say anything.”
Still, after 16 years together, she knows exactly where her focus is.
“At the end of the day, I know who he is,” she said. “He’s got his family. It is what it is.”
Bryce, 33, said he’s been dealing with that kind of scrutiny for so long that it barely reaches him anymore. The nine-time MLB All-Star said he was first booed when he was around 13 or 14, and he’s had plenty of time to get used to outside opinions.
“I just feel like not any of those people that are really saying stuff are ever going to be at my Thanksgiving dinner,” he said.
For Bryce, that perspective comes with years of being one of baseball’s most watched players. For Kayla, though, it still hurts to see someone she’s known since before the MVP awards, the huge contracts and the Philadelphia spotlight get flattened into somebody else’s version of him.
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