Wyatt Young doesn’t back down from a little jawing. He leans into it.
The Oklahoma State receiver has built a reputation as one of those players who can stir things up without letting it spill over. In the Cowboys’ loss to Houston, that showed up almost immediately when Young crossed paths with Cougars defensive tackle Ashton Porter, a player he grew up competing against in the Houston area.
The two exchanged a bro-hug dap, their facemasks bumped, and suddenly a referee was stepping in with a warning aimed at No. 10.
Porter didn’t get it.
“Bro, what did you do to that guy?” Porter said. “Ref, we’re good, we’re buddies.”
That kind of reaction says plenty about Young’s presence on a field. He talks to opponents.
He talks to fans. After catching his fifth touchdown of the season, he even waved at Houston supporters.
But he’s done it all without crossing the line into a personal foul, and the players on the other side usually walk away respecting it.
Young, a junior who leads the Cowboys with 561 receiving yards, says the back-and-forth is part of what fuels him.
“I feel like just being able to talk to them just kind of energizes me during the game and allows me to get going, brings out the juice for the whole team,” Young said.
That edge showed up long before he got to Stillwater. At Tompkins High School in Katy, where Young played quarterback during the second half of his junior year and all of his senior season, his competitive streak already had a voice.
He’d make a big play, break free from a defender, and keep talking the last 20 yards to the end zone. He insists it wasn’t about disrespect.
“Really just encouraging them after I make a good play on them,” Young said. “That’s the best I’ve got.”
His favorite lines have become family lore. His younger brother, Carter, has heard them plenty: Come catch me.
You’re almost there, you’re so close. You’ll get me next time.
Tom Young, Wyatt’s father, understood the competitive part of it, but he also made sure his son knew where the line was. The message was simple: keep it inside the game, and keep it clean. Wyatt has done exactly that.
He has never been flagged for post-snap antics, and he takes that seriously.
“I don't want to draw any personal flags for this team and set us back,” Young said. “That's just a selfish play, a selfish part of the game.
So I try to keep it in between the whistles. I'll come to the sideline and Coach (Eric) Morris will tell me, ‘Hey, take it back a little bit.
I love it though, but take it back.’”
Morris knows the type well. The Oklahoma State coach sees a receiver who plays with a little bite, and he’s not eager to sand it down. He said he was wired the same way 18 years ago when he played receiver at Texas Tech.
“I've always thought it's better to have to pull them back a little bit as opposed to push them,” Morris said. “If you have a little dog, you want him to bite in this sport.”
At Tompkins, coach Todd McVey saw that competitiveness every day. Young was one of the most intense players he ever coached, and practice went smoother because he hated when things weren’t done right. McVey called it gamesmanship.
He even remembers Young on the sideline, walking toward the coaches for the next play call while nudging an opponent’s fallen towel down the grass with his foot, never taking his eyes off the signal.
The antics haven’t stopped opponents from respecting him, though. In his final high school game, Young scored six touchdowns and recovered an onside kick in a 49-44 loss to Ridge Point in the bi-district round of the playoffs. After that onside kick in the fourth quarter, Tom says, Young celebrated closer to the opposing sideline than he probably needed to.
Even so, the respect followed. Ridge Point coach Rick LaFavers later brought up Wyatt’s name to every college recruiter who came through his office, and former North Shore coach John Kay did the same after games against him.
That dynamic showed up again last week when Young returned to Houston. Plenty of former opponents were in TDECU Stadium to watch, and Tom noticed the same pattern.
“A lot of them that came out to support were the opponents that he used to talk trash to,” Tom said. “So the fact that he can do that on the field, but then create those relationships of respect afterwards, I think highlights that it's not personal for him. It's just part of competing.”
For Young, that competitiveness seems to run through the family. He’s the middle of two brothers, and he grew up trading trash talk with Mason, his older brother, and Carter, his younger one. Now Carter is old enough to fire back.
Carter, a senior football player at Tompkins, says Wyatt knows exactly what gets him moving.
“Whatever gets himself going,” Carter said. “He always tells me like, ‘Gotta go out there and you gotta do what gets you going,’ and that's how he gets going. Just talking to people gets him excited, gets him ready to go.”
That same confidence has carried over into football, even if the path wasn’t straight or easy. Young was a three-star recruit, ranked by 247Sports as the No. 234 player in Texas.
Arizona was the only Power Conference program to offer him. After two seasons at North Texas, he made the jump to Oklahoma State, and even after being named to the American Conference first team, there were still questions about whether he could handle the Big 12.
Those doubts have only added to the edge.
Some of Young’s trash talk isn’t really aimed at the other guy at all. It’s for him, a way to steady himself and push through the noise.
“There might even be an element of imposter syndrome to some degree, right?” Tom said. “And some of this, I think, was him proving to himself that he could do it, and some of the excitement of actually realizing that he belongs there.”
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