Sheremy Dillard’s reach in North Carolina schools went far beyond basketball. The 57-year-old coach and teacher spent years pouring into students, athletes and colleagues, and now two communities are grieving her death after she was found Thursday at her Raleigh home.
Dillard had been working at Felton Grove High School in Apex, where she served as the girls basketball coach and a recovery teacher. Before that, she built a strong reputation at Carrboro High School as both a teacher and girls basketball coach, leaving behind a name that people around the program still spoke about with deep respect.
“Coach Dillard left Carrboro with a profound legacy of class, grace, wisdom and dedicated service,” a Chapel Hill-Carrboro City Schools spokesperson said in a statement reported by ABC 11 News. “She treated Jaguar players, coaches and colleagues like family, while never hesitating to engage in the hard conversations needed to advocate for equity and do what was best for our students and community.”
That kind of impact was reflected in the recognition she earned, including being named the Northern Lakes Athletic Conference girls basketball Coach of the Year in 2023, according to CBS 17 News.
But the numbers and awards only tell part of the story. ABC11 reported that Dillard graduated from North Carolina Central University and devoted herself to coaching and mentoring young people. She was also a member of Tau Gamma Delta Sorority, Incorporated.
Friends remembered that she showed the same care off the court that she did during games. Ticca Harris, a longtime friend and fellow sorority member, told ABC11 that Dillard made time for the people around her, including Harris’ children.
“She was also invested in my kids, my kids playing sports,” Harris told ABC11. “And so she was always one of their biggest cheerleaders and not only that, she was one of my biggest cheerleaders.”
Harris said Dillard “spread joy” and hoped people would carry that spirit forward.
At Felton Grove, Dillard was part of the school from the beginning. CBS 17 reported that she joined the Apex school when it opened in 2025. Along with coaching girls basketball, she worked as a recovery teacher, helping students make up skills or credits they needed.
The school notified families of her death through principal Robert Morrison, who wrote in a message reported by WRAL News: “Our condolences, thoughts and prayers go out to her family and friends,” Morrison wrote, according to WRAL News. “Please keep them and all of those that have been impacted by this loss in your hearts.”
He also said the school would support students and staff as they dealt with the news.
“We will work together as a unified school community and we will support one another as we process this loss and navigate this challenging time together,” he wrote.
Chapel Hill-Carrboro City Schools said it would also offer resources to Carrboro staff and students as they mourned their former coach, according to ABC11.
Dillard was found at her Raleigh home shortly after noon Thursday after family members became worried because they had not heard from her, WRAL reported. Raleigh police said she suffered multiple stab wounds.
Police identified Dillard’s boyfriend, Rickey Harper, as a suspect and said surveillance technology helped investigators determine that he had left North Carolina. Harper was taken into custody Friday afternoon in Pennsylvania.
The Wake County District Attorney’s Office charged Harper with first-degree murder in connection with Dillard’s death, WRAL reported.
For the people who knew Dillard best, the loss lands hard because her influence was never limited to wins, losses or the lines of a basketball court. Chapel Hill-Carrboro City Schools said many current Jaguar staff and students had strong relationships with her, and that the community would need one another as it worked through the grief.
“Many of our current Jaguar staff and students had strong relationships with Coach Dillard,” Chapel Hill-Carrboro City Schools said in its statement, “and as our community begins to process this loss, we will rely on each other for the needed support at this sad time.”
Harris put it simply when talking about her friend.
“She spread joy,” Harris told ABC11. “I loved her just like everybody else did.”
For former players, students and colleagues, that is the memory that remains: a coach and teacher who spent years advocating, encouraging and showing up for young people, leaving behind a legacy that stretched well beyond the basketball court.
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