Travis Kelce’s wedding to Taylor Swift may have been packed with big names, but the guest list also sparked some real chatter inside the Chiefs’ orbit.
According to a Chiefs player who spoke to the Daily Mail, some teammates were left talking after Harrison Butker was not invited, and the reaction spilled into private group chats and DMs. The player said the situation has created “locker-room chaos,” with texts flying among guys who felt Butker was snubbed.
“It’s really their wedding, and I understand why they wouldn’t have invited [Butker]. But there’s some difference of opinion [between players]. Lots of texts are going around the team, and some people who are close to Harrison feel like he was snubbed.
‘The general idea was that there was a blanket invite for the team, but [every other player] received something individually. If Harrison had really wanted to come, he probably could have. But they’re not close, so… he wasn’t going to go, even if he had been invited.’
Moreover, the Chiefs player added: ‘There’s now a lot of gossip going on. Training camp [for the new NFL season] starts in three weeks, and it’s going to be a whole thing.
A lot of guys want it to be drama [between Butker and Kelce]. They just like that s**t… a couple of the guys are being messy and texting Harrison to see what he thinks.
We’re like a high school team sometimes.’”
The first player also said there are multiple text chains in play, not one big team chat, and some of them are clearly more serious than others.
“It’s not like all of us are in the same [group chat]. The team is too big.
So there are groups that might just be like defense [players], or a certain group of guys. There are some with me in, some without me.
I am in about seven chains of players, some are professional… some are just used for talking s**t.
‘I have chains that have Travis on them, and chains that don’t. You always have to check to make sure you’re sending to the right chain. There have been times where you’ll talk s**t about someone and then realize they are in the group, and have to laugh it off.
‘I think most of the texts about the wedding are probably being sent in the groups without Travis. I have one that has about eight of us, and, before the wedding, it was like “Who’s going?” And everyone was saying where they were staying, or why they weren’t going.
‘I think maybe half the team went, probably less. A lot of people RSVP’d no, not because of anything bad, but because of a conflict. I didn’t go because I didn’t want to spend the 4th in New York and couldn’t bring my kids.
‘Some people asked, “Do we have to send them a gift?’, because they have more money than us, which was funny. People were coming up with funny things to send.
I thought it would be funny to send him something that was monogrammed “Mr and Mrs Swift”. That type of thing.
We sent each other memes and pictures.’”
The second Chiefs player said the team’s messaging threads are split up by different circles, and the wedding talk mostly stayed in the chats where Kelce wasn’t present.
“The team is too big. So there are groups that might just be like defense [players], or a certain group of guys.
There are some with me in, some without me. I am in about seven chains of players, some are professional… some are just used for talking s**t.”
The player added that he has one chat with Kelce and another without him, and that people have to be careful about where they send messages.
“I have chains that have Travis on them, and chains that don’t. You always have to check to make sure you’re sending to the right chain. There have been times where you’ll talk s**t about someone and then realize they are in the group, and have to laugh it off.”
He also said the wedding conversation was mostly about logistics, not bad blood.
“Most of [our group] texts were just logistics about how people were getting from their hotels to the wedding, or what everyone was going to wear. The women [players’ wives and girlfriends] have other text groups.
Taylor is officially a football wife now, and she’ll be invited to their wine nights and stuff, but she won’t go. I’m sure of that.
But if you want trash talk, you have to see their group texts. My girlfriend won’t even let me look at her phone to see it.”
The first player also stressed that nobody on the team is rooting against Kelce.
“Can’t say too much because Travis is my friend… Yeah, there are a few group texts. I’m on one with Harrison [Butker].
Someone sent a news story about him not being invited, and the group was like “WTF?” But he didn’t reply.
‘I don’t think anyone on the team wishes [Kelce] anything but good things. Everyone likes him.
He’s a good teammate and a good friend. There’s locker room s**t, but it’s nothing disrespectful.’”
Kelce and Swift were married last week and invited more than 1,000 people. Among those at the wedding were Jason Kelce, Austin Swift, Ed and Donna Kelce, Scott and Andrea Swift, Andy Reid, Patrick and Brittany Mahomes, Chris Jones, and Isiah Pacheco.
The source also noted that this is not the first time a championship roster has dealt with offseason personal drama, and with training camp still three weeks away, Kelce has time to smooth things over.
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