Hockey doesn’t just need apologies. It needs consequences.
That is the thread running through the latest criticism of the Edmonton Oilers’ personnel decisions, and through a wider concern about what young athletes are being taught when the wrong people keep getting welcomed back into the game.
The Oilers have signed winger Alex Formenton, hired coach Mike Babcock and are being run by general manager Stan Bowman. In the source material, all three are tied to shameful histories: Formenton’s from the Hockey Canada trial, Babcock’s from years of not being able to get work because of bullying players under his charge, and Bowman’s from his role in Chicago, where he turned a blind eye to the abuse of Kyle Beach.
The argument here is not just that these are bad headlines. It’s that they send a message about what hockey is willing to tolerate.
Teresa Fowler, an adjunct professor in the University of Calgary’s school of education, has already taken aim at those decisions. In a letter published by The Edmonton Journal last month, she wrote, “Alex Formenton is not the problem.
Stan Bowman is the problem. Mike Babcock is the problem,” She continued: “A management group with skewed priorities that hires people who have been suspended from the NHL and some from Hockey Canada is the problem.
The NHL has stated that Alex’s behaviour, ‘Did not meet the standard of moral integrity,’ and does not represent NHL values, and yet again, this institution is letting us down. That is also the problem.”
Her point goes beyond any one roster move or coaching hire. Fowler says the deeper issue is a culture that still looks the other way when hazing, bullying and other forms of abuse are happening around young men in sport.
That concern sharpened for her again with the Cornell case, which has reopened questions after a civil filing in a previously closed sexual assault case. In that incident, a message was sent in a group chat among fraternity members asking people to join a room where a female student was badly inebriated.
There were 57 men on the chat, and seven are alleged to have participated in sexual aggression against the vulnerable woman. The other 50 did nothing.
That silence matters just as much as the act itself, Fowler said. Group chats where nobody speaks up, where nobody says “hey, this is wrong” or “we shouldn’t do this,” are chilling.
In both the Cornell case and the Hockey Canada case, where five Hockey Canada junior players including Formenton were found not guilty by a court but suspended by the NHL, Fowler says the same issue keeps surfacing: vulnerability. In both situations, a young woman was in what could have been a fun, exciting environment for a young person, and then ended up vulnerable while no one appeared to intervene.
“As a young person who’s been surrounded by this scene, you’re really enamoured by it … and you’re very vulnerable,” she said.
“I think it extends beyond consent, because consent’s been weaponized, as we’ve seen. When you think about consent, you know the main argument with consent, especially towards females, it’s if they were drinking, they can’t consent.
Well, it’s really the same thing with men. They’re drinking, too.
So it kind of throws that argument out.
“So again, it comes down to vulnerability and knowing sexual violence is not about sex; it’s about power. And I think it’s also thinking about that in the lens of vulnerability. You’re just setting yourselves up.
Fowler believes male athletes have to be the ones to speak up when they hear talk that ignores that vulnerability. In her view, it cannot be left to women alone. The values sport likes to celebrate - teamwork, loyalty, shared purpose - should be used to confront the dangers women experience every day.
“What does the spirit of teamwork and all of these things mean?” she asked. “Does it mean you keep everybody in a bubble and you don’t talk about what it means when you get a team text to ‘go for pizza,’ or does it mean that no, as a team, we are not OK with this.
“They say sports is about teamwork and loyalty, but we weaponize loyalty, right? We weaponize these things, and so I think it’s just more clarifying if you’re asking the question, what does it mean to be loyal? What does it mean to be on a team?”
The broader frustration is hard to miss. If parents, coaches and leaders are supposed to teach young men how to treat others, then why are so many still failing to give them that moral foundation? Why are they teaching only the language of consent, instead of the harder lesson of recognizing vulnerability and speaking up when something is wrong?
That’s the real challenge sitting underneath the Oilers’ decisions and the Cornell case alike. And it leads to the question Fowler and others are forcing into the open: what should happen to men who cross those lines?
“How is it we’re in a world that doesn’t recognize that maybe the consequences for guys like Babcock, like Bowman, like Formenton, is that they don’t get to stay in their chosen jobs?”
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