Michael Porter Jr. gave fans a rare look at life beyond the hardwood during a recent appearance on the Girls, Disrupted podcast, where the Brooklyn Nets forward talked openly about dating, family and how soon he might walk away from basketball.
The most memorable moment came when Porter revisited Michael Rubin’s annual White Party over the Fourth of July weekend. According to Porter, the event turned into a tricky one for him because five of his exes were there at the same time.
“I had like five of my exes at Rubin's all White,” Porter said. “It was hectic in there for me.”
He didn’t try to downplay how awkward that sounded, either. Porter called the situation “crazy” and said he “had to navigate a lot” that night. His solution was simple: keep his distance.
“I decided to just do my thing and stay out the way,” he said.
Porter also discussed how he approaches relationships, saying he’s in no rush to lock anything down. He said he can wait before making things official and that he actually enjoys the early stretch of dating.
“I'll take a while to put a label on it,” Porter said. He later described the talking stage as his favorite part of dating and said he enjoys a “situationship.”
But the conversation wasn’t just about romance. Porter made it clear that his thinking is shifting as he gets older, especially when it comes to having children and building a family.
“When we start having kids, I don't want other people really raising my kids,” Porter said.
That mindset is part of why he’s already looking ahead to retirement, and not in some distant, far-off way. Porter said he doesn’t want to be playing for another decade and would rather be done much sooner.
“ I don't want to play basketball for 10 more years. I want to be done in the next five, six years,” Porter said.
At 28, and after a season in which he became a major offensive piece for Brooklyn, that timeline stands out. Porter has already lived plenty of NBA life: early injuries, a championship run with the Denver Nuggets and then the move to Brooklyn.
He also said he wants to be around when he has kids, not just present in name only. Porter said he wants to make sure the person he eventually has children with shares his values and would be a good role model for them.
For now, he’s still locked in on basketball. But the podcast made one thing clear: Porter is already picturing what comes after, and he’s thinking about it on his own timetable.
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